i read 1 of eek's post on her blog.
and for some reason's i've been feeling the same for so long.
here's what she said.
"wad's the use of havin frens hu in the end, do no good for you? why do sum people even tek the effort to go the xtra mile to help a fren in one way or anotha, when in the end, they'll leave you? aint saying tt a person can't help his or her fren but wat kind of help shud a person give to wat kind of fren?
to me, yes i do treasure a f'ship but to a certain extend. from past experiences, your closest fren is the one tt'll leave you in tym to cum. frens dun remember you for wat you've done, they'll remember you for wat u did not do and when they leave you, they wun talk bout the good tings you did, but the bad ones instead. so, isn't it betta off not havin frens?"
and for some unaccountable reasons,
i agree with her. a lot.
so tell me,
how do you distunguish a real friend?
or 1 who just needs company?