i was watching the tyra banks show.
and they were interviewing this black lady.
who havent been dating any guys for quite some time.
even though she claims to have met so many guys.
she admits that there were hardly black mens who was perfect for her.
and cnfessed that it was getting kind of boring and lonely.
so then tyra asked her,
was is her ''type''.
she then started listing them one by one.
she threw out a whole chunk of them.
she wants a black men only.
claims that white men always have bad intentions with women.
A sophisticated man with manners and respect,
who is highly educated.
yet she wants one that is not too much of a nerd,
but more of those men that lives in the hood.
someone with style.
she used kanye west as an example.
she wants someone who hide their noes behind books,
yet love to club at the same time.
a taller man is more ideal.
and he must be way older too.
he must have straight white teeth.
and always keep a clean cut.
and the list still continues.
i can hardly remember them all.
after listing everything,
audience were then allowed to ask hr questions.
and honestly,
she ticked most of them off.
be it women or men.
but of course everyone is entitled to their own opinions.
so honestly,
is this women still single just bec she expects too much from a guy?
or is it just an excuse as to why she is still single?

There were some audience who confronted her.
saying that she way way over the line.
some claimed that she should love someone for who he is.
while there were some who says its not about the looks,
or how clever he is.
its how he makes her feel.
and sure he feels the same too.
there was another who suggest her to change him.

Do these type of people really exists?
haha.
obviously each of us have our preferences.
but that doesnt mean we have to apply them to every aspect of our lives right?
Like for example.
take me for instance.
i like really tall guys,
but just bec my bf isnt very tall, i wont want him.
we just have to learn to appreciate what we have.
but if we do get what we prefer,
its just a bonus.

after all,
love isnt about being perfect right.
its about being happy.

then there was one questions,
tyra asked if its better to love a stranger and start from scratch,
or to try and love again the one who u had loved before?
what do you think?

oh.
and i came across this very cute but meaningful picture.
(:


today,
went out to geylang with my fam,
to get our raya clothes.
sadly, mine's not ready yet.
we had dinner there then headed home.
the fasting month hasnt started yet.
but geylang was already packed with people.
and those preparing for the bazaar.
i cant wait!

till here.
(: